Sunday, June 11, 2017

[22/m] Her parents are terrible, any advice (20/f)?


I've happily been together with my girlfriend for a year now. During that time, I realized that her parents are... terrible. We both still live with our parents. Hers are strictly religious, so she has to hide the fact that she's actually not religious and also has to hide our relationship (which works for now, but is not always easy).If she told them about me (I'm atheist and not a church member), they'd probably kick her out. They've threathened to do that for much smaller things before even though she's never done anything bad, but I have the feeling they dislike her and prefer her siblings over her. She often let's me now that she hates her parents and gets yelled at frequently for unfair reasons, which makes me sad for her and sometimes makes her cry :(If she wanted to leave her family's church (which seems more like a cult to me...), her parents would probably cut all ties with her. In comparision, my parents are pretty amazing.I'd like to get some advice how I can support her in this tough situation and comfort her when she's sad about it. Also, on how we should best deal with it. We both don't have enough money to move out yet. via /r/relationship_advice http://ift.tt/2rPDTS4

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