Me [29m] got dumped a month ago by [25f]. Went hard NC immediately and then sent a coffee txt a few days ago for a quick meetup under pretense of friends. I was aloof, acted happy about the breakup, and was positive. Causally mentioned a hike I was doing in a few days, she said she wanted to do the same hike. I then suggested we do it together (tomorrow). It's pretty long, about 5 hours total so I'll have lots of facetime with her.Does she really believe this is a friends only thing? I mean it will be pretty difficult to still not have feelings for each other. Either way I plan on showing her my self improvements and basically be honest with her about how I still feel.If I get rejected I'll use it as closure and completely eradicate her from my life (including social media which I didn't do before and a shared soccer team).Just wondering people's opinions about in her mind what she is thinking. My next move is to invite her over for dinner under as a date(not friends). I will not allow myself to be friend zoned, but you have to start some where. via /r/ExNoContact http://ift.tt/2taqZMr
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